What was it like being among the first in your family to go to college?
Nerve-wracking. My only guidance was from the media, and we all know how accurate that can be in depicting what college will really be like. In all of the uncertainties however, I felt empowered, being the first in the family has a nice ring to it in a way, you get to in a way iron out all of the wrinkles for the next generation of students. I realized I was now setting up a future for not only myself but for those who come after me.
What does it mean for you personally to be a part of the FGEN community and, specifically, to be a FGEN student ambassador?
To be apart of the FGEN community means giving a voice to the struggles that are usually left underappreciated or recognized. Being an FGEN ambassador allows me to give a helping hand and a voice to the incoming class that may have felt silent throughout this process. I have always been rather silent in my struggles to get here and feel embarrassed to seek help for things that appear to be easier for others. I love having the opportunity to create a welcome, open, and judgement free space for those who were in the same position as myself.
What is your advice to FGEN students at UP who are facing challenges?
Lead with kindness in everything you do, especially towards yourself. The first year doing anything will not be easy, its like leaning an instrument or how to draw, you need to practice to improve. Within all of that practice you also need to be mentally strong and kind to yourself to know that one day it will get easier, and you will find your way in the world. Embracing these challenges becomes more manageable when you allow yourself the freedom to make mistakes along the way.
Did a mentor play a role in your experience?
Yes! I've had mentors throughout high school but never a first-generation mentor. When I came to the university and paired with someone who shared many similarities with me I finally truly felt heard in my struggles. My mentor taught me how to laugh through the pain. There was no sugarcoating needed because even though it was difficult to get through my first year here, I always had a should who walked the same path.
What resources have been significant, meaningful or helpful for you so far during your UP experience?
Making study groups to meet people, joining the UP orchestra, and going to FGEN events really helped to find a community and friendships that I hope to keep going forward.
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