Yamilenia Aguilar Diaz '26

Major: Biology

What was it like being among the first in your family to go to college? Tell us about your story and what you think helped you succeed. 

Having the honor of being the first in my family to ever attend college has been among my proudest yet most challenging moments. I had always dreamed of attending college, especially in a different state. However, it was something that proved to be far more difficult than I would've ever imagined. Although at the beginning I constantly missed my home and my family, I was able to push through and finish strong. I think what helped me be successful in my first year was the unconditional support I received from my loved ones and finding the sense of community on campus that I longed for. Joining amazing programs like FGEN helped me realize that I wasn't alone on my journey and that I had many peers who shared my struggles and could turn to for advice. Being the first of my family to attend college will never stop being difficult, yet I believe the support I receive from those around me is a large factor to my upcoming success. 

What does it mean for you personally to be a part of the FGEN community and, specifically, to be a FGEN student ambassador? 

To be a part of the FGEN community on campus means to be surrounded by incredibly intelligent, supportive, and kind individuals willing to always help you out. It's a reminder that although being the first in your family to attend college is difficult, it doesn't make it impossible. It is also a beautiful reminder of how far a little bit of support can go for an individual. To be an FGEN ambassador means having the opportunity to be the person that I once needed for others. It is the ability to be an experienced individual that can provide resources and advice to someone who needs it. It is a way of expressing gratitude for all the help I once received. 

What is your advice to first gen students at UP who are facing challenges? 

My advice to first gen students at UP facing challenges would be to look for resources that can benefit them in finding a sense of belonging. Whether that be seeking help for mental health, joining clubs to make friends, and to never shy out of asking for help. One of the most hurtful things you can do to yourself is try to figure out everything on your own, it can be very mentally draining, and there is nothing wrong with prioritizing your mental health and peace of mind. 

Did a mentor play a role in your experience? Why or how? 

I did have a mentor who was really good and gave me advice and resources, although because of how bad my mental health was at the time I was very distanced from everything I didn't really create an intimate relationship. 

What resources have been significant, meaningful or helpful for you so far during your UP experience? 

The most helpful resources during my UP experience include FGEN because it's something I'm really proud to be a part of, my professors, and the friends I have made. My friends were probably the biggest help when it came to improving my mental health because they were the ones to always encourage me to take a break and go out to have fun. My awesome professor Molly Matty was always available to listen to my concerns, regardless of whether they were academic or not. She always took the time to reach me, which I will always appreciate. 

Is there anything else you wish to share that has not been mentioned or asked? 

I would like to say that I was someone who really struggled to adjust to UP, and although I don't think I will ever become 100% accustomed to it, I do feel comfortable with the progress I've made. I strive to share my experience with others, so they know it's okay to be vulnerable and that there is no shame in asking to be helped.